A majority of online marketers when spewing all of their knowledge about attraction marketing, fling those words around not even considering whether they’re understood or not
This is certainly not to put your ability to understand or putting your intelligence in question. When I first heard the term I automatically thought about looks. Of course after I thought about it for a while I began to appreciate what it really means.
Do you ever look back to when you were a kid how you constantly wanted to fit in. The kids who were physically adept, good at tetherball, soccer, tag etc or who “looked” cool were the “attractive” ones. They didn’t do anything to try to be attractive, they just inherently were.
All of the other kids wanted to be near them because they had what the other kids wanted. The celebrated kids became even more popular because not only were the kids attracted to them but were also following the crowd. Now the popular kids had two things going for them. The attraction factor and the fact that everyone else wanted to fit in.
I know a little female whose identity will remain anonymous because of the possible, albeit slim chance she will ever read this. At the time she was about 8 or 9 years old and her biggest resentment in life was that she didn’t have “any” friends. I think she had a set of twins for friends but it wasn’t enough.
I had a chance to watch her in action a couple of times as she was put into family and friend situations, get-togethers. The harder she tried the further away the other kids would get. She pushed herself on the other kids. She wanted to have a record, a story of friendship that is acquired over years… in about ten minutes.
“Do you like me?” was expressed more than once and was chiefly answered silently but with a look. It must have been very agonizing for her. I know it was for me.
So you can relate to what I had to do. I had to rescue her. I had to inform her what was happening, what she was bringing on herself. I told her that what she was doing, trying to force herself on the other kids, was having the opposite effect. That just acting as herself and treating the other kids just the way she herself wanted to be treated and having an enjoyable time would get the desired result…in time.
I talked for an hour, pretty much saying the same words over and over again. Her face and her words finally said “Oh, I get it” and you could see the enthusiasm and anticipation bubbling up as she got ready to go “back into the ring”. I watched, feeling pretty clever about having “saved” her as she went back and…did exactly the same thing she was doing before.
Awareness of Attraction Marketing is really the same thing.
When I was originally introduced to Internet Marketing and for way too long after that I wanted to let EVERBODY know about my shot at freedom. At the time I was involved with a network marketing company. I would call people and set up a time to get together, expose to them the opportunity and then be completely confused as to why they didn’t get as excited as I was.
“I’ll think about it”. “I have to talk to my wife or husband first”. ————– You fill in the blank if you’ve been through it. I’d make myself feel better by saying well, they just make their decisions differently from me, they’ll come around.
It’s the next day or a couple of days later and I’ve just become that little girl. All of a sudden I can’t get anyone to answer the phone. Nobody will even come to the door. I’m hunting these people all over town and the harder I hunt the faster they run.
I just couldn’t understand why people, my friends, my family couldn’t see what I saw. Or why they didn’t want to improve their lot in life. Actually I still don’t understand that one. But that’s the way it is.
For as long as I can remember, since I was old enough to get a job, I haven’t been happy or satisfied with the status quo.
How can anyone be satisfied with the fact that they are told what time to be at a certain place, whether or not they can go to lunch and how long to take for lunch.
They’re told how long they have to stay, if they have to stay past the normal quitting time. “But I have plans”. Doesn’t matter. Nothing in your life matters. Your boss’ needs matter. End of story.
Well those types of people, for the most part, will always be right where they are. There are a million and one reasons why these people choose to stay in their limited life situations and only they know what those reasons are. You don’t need to know. You just need to move on.
So, when it comes to online affiliate marketing you’ll become attractive to other people who have similar interests as you when you become like the person they want to be. You won’t have to find them. They’re already looking and at some point, they’ll find you.